I did not really come to Stanford to party, more so for the educational opportunities and I'm actually glad of it. The bars are lackluster and the other students are more laid back and serious. I mean the only party I've been invited to so far was a study party and while there were tons of girls there, the books got more attention than the guys did. The party was BYOSD or bring your own soft drinks. I'm sure there is more action that this going on at Standford, but I have not found it yet.